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How To Have Sex Podcast — Terms of Service
Last updated: April 2026
Welcome to the bed 🛏️ By subscribing to or accessing How To Have Sex on Substack, you agree to these terms. We’ve tried to keep them as painless as possible — unlike bad sex.
Who we are How To Have Sex is a New Zealand-based podcast hosted by Jay-Jay Feeney and Melissa Vranjes. Our content covers sex education, relationships, intimacy and desire. It is intended for adults aged 18 and over.
Age restriction By accessing this publication you confirm that you are 18 years of age or older. This content is not suitable for minors. If you are under 18, please leave the bed immediately.
Subscriptions & payments Free and paid subscription tiers are available. Paid subscriptions are billed monthly or annually depending on your chosen plan. All payments are processed securely through Substack. Prices are listed in USD and may be subject to change with notice.
Refund policy We don’t offer refunds for partial subscription periods. If you have a genuine issue please reach out to us at howtohavesexpodcastnz@gmail.com and we’ll do our best to help.
Content All content published on this Substack — including episodes, written posts, bonus material and videos — is the intellectual property of How To Have Sex. You may not reproduce, share, redistribute or repurpose our content without written permission. Paid content is for your personal use only. Sharing paid content with non-subscribers is not permitted and just a little bit rude 😉
Community guidelines Our subscriber chat and comments section are shame-free zones. We expect all community members to be respectful of other subscribers, keep conversations constructive and kind, avoid sharing explicit imagery, and not harass, bully or shame other members. We reserve the right to remove comments or revoke access for anyone who violates these guidelines. No warnings, no second chances — out of the bed you go.
Privacy We take your privacy seriously. Your personal information is collected and managed by Substack in accordance with their privacy policy. We will never sell your data or share it with third parties without your consent.
Disclaimer The content on How To Have Sex is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. Melissa Vranjes is a certified sex and relationship coach, however nothing shared on this podcast or publication constitutes formal medical, psychological or therapeutic advice. Please seek professional support if needed.
Changes to these terms We may update these terms from time to time. We’ll let you know if anything significant changes. Continued use of the publication means you’re happy with the updated terms.
Contact us Got questions? Slide into our inbox: howtohavesexpodcastnz@gmail.com @howtohavesexpodcast on Instagram
Thanks for being here. Now let’s get into it. 💋
Jay-Jay & Mel